Suntem fiinte umane, unirea contrariilor intr-o singura faptura unica si minunata. Si, ca oameni, suntem suspusi greselii. De-a lungul vietii avem parte de multe experiente, unele frumoase, altele mai putin placute. Si fiecare experienta ne deschide o noua portita spre cunoastere. Cu fiecare greseala mai facem un pas pe drumul evolutiei noastre ca oameni pentru ca fiecare greseala ne invata ce avem de facut in continuare. In viata noastra apar, la un moment dat, oameni sau situatii de care ne atasam sip e care ne este greu sa le lasam in urma. Acceptarea faptului ca vine un moment cand ne vedem nevoiti sa renuntam la cei dragi noua care ne-au fost alaturi la nevoie implica o anumita maturitate emotionala si constientizarea conditiei noastre ca fiinte umane.
Cand o etapa se incheie, o alta incepe. Orice ruptura se simte, in prealabil, in campul energetic. Pentru moment, ramane un gol in suflet pe care ai impresia ca nimeni nu il mai poate umple. Dar atunci cand privesti in urma si retraiesti acele clipe de vibratie cosmica intr-un acord deplin, esti din nou fericit. Asculta-I dorintele, intelege-i temerile, accepta-l asa cum este si nu incerca sa schimbi nimic. Daca vrea sa plece, sa nu il tii langa tine. Fericirea lui este si fericirea ta. Daca l-ai ales, inseamna ca il accepti asa cum este el, cu calitati si defecte. L-ai ales pentru ca, inainte de toate, ti-ai fost un prieten adevarat. L-ai ales pentru ca te-a facut sa te simti speciala. L-ai ales pentru ca este perfect. Poate ca nu te cunoaste asa cum il cunosti tu. Dar a facut, la randul lui, o alegere. Lasa-i libertatea sa aleaga. Tu il vei intelege pentru ca datorita lui ti-ai deschis sufletul si el te-a invatat sa supravietuiesti. Datorita lui esti vindecata de acea iubire egoista care te face sa-l doresti pe cel de langa tine pentru propria ta fericire. Acum ai invatat sa oferi si esti pregatita sa mergi mai departe. Nu mai ai nevoie de cineva care sa-ti umple golul interior deoarece esti un ocean de iubire gata sa se reverse catre cine e dispus sa o primeasca.
Sa privim cu seninatate astfel de experiente, sa acceptam dorinta celuilalt si, atunci cand vine timpul, sa aratam un semn de recunostinta celor care ne-au sustinut si care ne-au iubit. Poate fi un obiect, o vorba buna sau chiar tacerea. O tacere care ascunde gratitudinea noastra eterna si satisfactia insusirii unei alte lectii de viata. Abia atunci ne vom putea deschide larg sufletul si vom fi impacati cu noi insine.
Pace si iubire!
Experience – a path to evolution
We all are human beings, a bond of contradictions in a wonderful and unique creature. As people, we are fallible. Over the life, we go through many experiences, some agreeable, some less agreeable. But each experience opens a new gate to knowledge. With each mistake we make a step forward on the path of our evolution as human beings because every mistake teaches us what to do further. In our life appears, at a certain moment, people or situations which we attach to and which we have difficulties to leave behind. The acceptance of the fact that, someday, it comes a time when we have to give up to beloved ones, to those who were beside us in times of need, demands a certain ripeness and the awareness of our condition as human beings.
When a stage ends, another begins. Any break-up is felt, previously, in the energetic field. For the moment, an emptiness remains and you have the impression that now one could fill your soul again. But when you look behind and relive those moments of cosmic vibrations, in a complete fusion, you’re happy again. Listen to his wishes, understand his fears, accept him the way he is and don’t try to change a thing. If he wants to leave, don’t hold him back. His happiness is your happiness too. If you have chosen him, it means that you accepted him the way he is, with his qualities and his faults. You have chosen him because, first of all, he was a real friend to you. You have chosen him because he made you feel special. You have chosen him because he is perfect. Maybe he doesn’t know you the way you know him. But he made a choice, at his turn. Give him the freedom of choice. You understand him because he was the reason for you to opening the heart and has taught you to survive. Because of him you’re healed of that selfish love that makes you wish your lover for your own happiness. Now you have learned to offer and you’re prepared to go further. You don’t need someone to fill your emptiness inside because you’re an ocean of love ready to over-flow to whom is willing to receive.
Let’s look with serenity such experiences, let’s accept others wish and, when the time comes, let’s show some gratitude to those who supported and loved us. It may be an object, a good word or even silence; a silence that is hiding our eternal respect and the satisfaction that we have learned another lesson of life. It is but now that we could widely open our soul and be reconciled with ourselves.
Peace and Love!
